Best Friends

Yesterday I was having a conversation with one office colleague about friendships. And she said she had been ‘friends’ with her friends for a very very long time. With some she’s had close friendship since their childhhod.

And I told her, what I always noticed about my life, that I’ve had friends for every season. In my every need, I’ve had people appearing when least expected, becoming very good friends. Supporting, rescuing, loving through thick and thin.

I have given my 100% to the friendships and received their 100% in return. And yet, I have seen that we’ve eventually become distant.

No, not that things soured and we aren’t friends anymore. But just that the closeness evaporates. The hold is lost. It is never a deliberate falling apart but just a natural drifting away.

I have always wondered if this was normal. Or if I was just a people repeller??

I have never been sans a friend. But I haven’t had a consistent friend or a few close knit friends.

This I am saying about my women friends. In India, it is still common to be best friends with the same sex persons only. Although it isn’t uncommon to be friends with the opposite sex. But I believe that its not the same.

I personally think that a platonic, intimate relationship between a man and woman is eventually complicated by love and physical attraction.

I mean you cannot be great friends with someone with whom you don’t connect at a mental level. And if you connect there and spend much time together as friends do, you are bound to develop feelings… etc etc..

Well, I digress..

So I was saying, I don’t have friends who, for decades, have stayed as close as we started out. While the old friends still continued to be friends, I developed newer friendships and equations changed.

Has that happened to any one of you?

And then I received the following forward from a friend.

So this is to all my friends, whether you’ve been a friend for 20 minutes or 2o years:

 

Best Friends

When I was little,
I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,
And then I started to become a woman.
And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,
God would show you the best in many friends.
 
 
 
Best Friends, friendhsip
One friend is needed when you’re going through things with your man.
Another friend is needed when you’re going through things with your mom.
Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.
Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.
One friend will say, ‘Let’s cry together,’
Another , ‘Let’s fight together,’
Another , ‘Let’s walk away together.’

Best Friends, Friendships

One friend will meet your spiritual need,
Another your shoe fetish,
Another your love for movies,
Another will be with you in your season of confusion,
Another will be your clarifier,
Another the wind beneath your wings.

Best Friends, Friendships, Girl friends

 

But whatever their assignment in your life,
On whatever the occasion,
On whatever the day,
Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,
Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself ..
Those are your best friends.

 

 
Best girl friends, Friendships

It may all be wrapped up in one woman, But for many, it’s wrapped up in several…
One from 7th grade,
One from high school,
Several from the college years,
A couple from old jobs,
On some days your mother,
On some days your neighbor,
On others, your sisters,
And on some days, your daughters.

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A Proud Indian… :)

It happens only in India, Proud to be IndianI am pretty sure, any Indian who reads this will identify with some or most of the following:

 

 

*When the Shampoo bottle seems to be over, I pour some water in it, shake it, and use it for another bath.

*That for me a toothpaste isn’t over until I’ve entirely flattened it out and started rolling it up from the back.

*That I buy broccoli and avocados for 300 Rupees, but still ask for some Dhaniya patta for free.

*That I don’t just recycle gifts,… I recycle the gift-wrapping paper too.

*Our home has fine bone china crockery which is used only when guests visit.

*That I worry about price of gold even when I do not intend buying it!

*That I will beat the crap out of my remote to make it work but not change the battery.

*I get so disappointed if the pani puri guy doesn’t give a free sukha puri in the end when I ask for one.

*That I won’t have my breakfast and starve myself if I have been invited for a lunch buffet.

*That when my T-shirt gets old, I use it as night wear, when it gets older, I play holi in it & then I use it as a pochha.

*That I ask for extra oregano and chili flakes from the Dominos guy, so that I can use them later in Maggi.

You were nodding in agreement and shared a hearty laugh, hai na? 🙂

Humour!

For the lack of will to actually write something on my blog, I keep sharing with you these funny things that has made me smile… Atleast that keeps the connect. Hopefully I am able to write something of substance….SOON 🙂

Until then, here is more of such funny stuff…

I’ve always wondered ” WHY DO I START FEELING SLEEPY THE VERY MOMENT I REACH OFFICE…??? “

Sleepy in office

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FINALLY, THE ANSWER… !!!!!

Comic Definition of Office Cubicle 

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MYSTERY RESOLVED !!!

What’s Love got to do with it…

Husband Wife humourThere was a group of women gathered at a seminar on how to live in a loving relationship with your husband.

 The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’ All the women raised their hands.
 
Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’ Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember.
 
The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text: I love you, sweetheart.
 
Then the women were told to exchange phones and read the responding text messages.
 
Here are some of the replies:
 
1. Who is this??
 
2. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?
 
3. I love you too.
 
4. What now? Did you crash the car again?
 
5. I don’t understand what you mean?
 
6. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time.
 
7. ?!?
 
8. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?
 
9. Am I dreaming?
 
10. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, someone will die.
 
11. I asked you not to drink anymore. I’ll leave if you are tired of me??

Valentine Humour

Valentine died for love,

Romeo died for love,

Jack in Titanic died for love,

Samson in the Bible died for love,

Greek heroes Hercules & Achilles died for love,

Even Jesus Christ died for love…

Where are the women!!!!

Don’t buy any woman a Valentine Treat this year until she gives you names of atleast 5 women who died for love….

Wake up guys….!!!